Everyone got FFK (Fong Fei Kei – Cantonese: standing someone up) before. Or sometimes we unintentionally FFK someone.
FFK can become a habit. Mostly people with bad time management or they think breaking promise is very normal are FFKer. Not to mention, I got FFK few times by the same fella and the worst thing is even though he knew it, he just doesn’t seem to learn from his mistake. Arggg, life really sucks…
For me, when I promise someone I’ll fulfill my promise no matter how. Unless there are good reasons, if not I wont simply break my promise to people. I think fulfilling your promise makes you a reliable and trustworthy people.
Sometimes, we need to do some self examination and think deeply if we have the habits of FFK or not. Do you look at the straw in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the rafter in your own eye?